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Despite the fact that the authors apologise
for writing them, I find Christmas news-letters very interesting. So I
hope the following extracts will be of interest to at least some of our
readers. I often wish I had a record of the dates each Scout was in the
Group. Sometimes I can remember at which camp he was a first-year, or a
PL. I usually try to put their bits of news in chronological order.
News of probably our oldest Old Scout has not come from a letter, but
from the Daily Telegraph. Ian Whiteman noticed an advertisement stating
that Captain David Goldson RN was retiring as secretary of the Royal
Thames Yacht Club, in Knightsbridge.
An e-mail from Richard Charlwood just after our February Reunion, somehow
got overlooked. - Apologies, Richard ! He had made a brief contribution
to the first “What Scouting has Meant to Me” booklet, but
amplified his thoughts in this letter :
Joining the Scout Group was probably the first major decision of my life
which was truly my own. The opportunity to see places I would not otherwise
have seen, Windermere, Wiltz, Lundy, etc, whilst they remain pleasant
memories and were undoubtedly great experiences, are not the main reason
why I treasure those brief few years in the fifties.
Over the years I have walked into some very strange places, and what
you taught me was survival in those scenes, and how to plan my future.
We drove a convoy of two drilling rigs, three wagons and a couple of
Mitsubishi Shoguns from Dakar Senegal, across the desert to Bamako in
Mali to drill for water. No roads to speak of, just maps. Seven hundred
miles took two weeks, give or take a few breakdowns and bog downs. We
had to take everything with us. Not a million miles different from being
dumped on an island in the Thames for a long week-end, carrying everything
we needed. Not quite the hazards I grant you, but the question was just
the same: “What will I need ?”
One thing I learned from Scouting was to plan ahead. When things start
going wrong, if you haven’t planned your foreseeable future, events
overtake you so quickly you never catch up, - and in some places, that
will probably be lethal.
None of us will ever know how different we would have been without Scouting.
When I look back on some of my scrapes, I tend to the view that I would
not have survived without it. I can recall on a number of occasions saying
to myself, “The next few minutes are going to be quite important
to your future survival, mate, so think carefully.” I truly believe
that the ability to analyse the “strange scenes” I mentioned
earlier came from my time with the 16th.
Bill Songhurst signs his e-mail ‘Willie’, as he was always
known. Seeing the reminiscences in our last issue writes: “I too
remember singing the ‘Choirboys’, - cassocks supplied by
Brockham Church, I think, - and the ‘Fairies’. I recall Freddie
Huggins and John Woodhouse and others. I also remember the Luxembourg
camp, - sitting in the log chalet for days after the crossing, and still
seeing the room going up and down.”
Ashlin Harrington is literally counting down the days and hours until
he can retire from ‘the day job’ when he reaches 60 next
May. He is looking forward to more time to walk and paint. He has made
a start by getting together a group of eight retired / semi-retired mates
to do some walks based on the Bristol to Weymouth railway, visiting as
many pubs within walking distance of the stations as possible. Ashlin
and Joyce are also hoping to visit his relations in New Zealand, and
also buy a touring caravan.
We have recently welcomed early Scouting memories from some of you,
and we would be glad to have more.
Mike Pearman has written of a slightly different camp memory:
Reading the news-sheet made me think about a camp at Hay-on-Wye when
I was the leader of the 1st Brookwood. It was enlivened by several things.
We arrived to find that there was a company of Guides in the next field.
We had only been there a few minutes when I received a visit from their
leader, who said that she “did NOT expect to see Scouts in her
field.” As if our little darlings would have entertained such a
thought. Actually it was fine, - all the Guides came into our field !
The other side of us was a troop of Scouts who in the dead of night let
our guy-lines down and hoisted a cooking shelter up the flag-pole. All
very easily put right, and yours truly did not think of reprisals. These
other Scouts had to go through our field to get to theirs. Led by my
beloved elder son, our lads hoarded their breakfast eggs, and - - - unfortunately
they scored a direct hit on the leader who, shall we say, was seriously
less than amused. However, when I explained the reason for this ambush,
he brightened up, and went off to seek retribution from, or on, his own
boys.
In one of our patrols there was a nice lad who, according to his PL,
was trying to do himself a mischief with an axe, and would not stop.
I had a quiet but strong word with him. Next morning, across the field
came the patrol leader with the damaged Scout, with a considerable slice
on his hand. Lots of blood. Almost spoiled my breakfast ! What did spoil
my breakfast was deciding what to do with him. Casualty was the obvious
choice, but the cut was remarkably clean, (which was a tribute to something),
so I sat him down and told him to hold the cut together tightly until
I said he could stop. I chatted amicably with him, and discovered that
his Mum was the District Guide Leader. Bleeding stopped, lad seemed happy,
and I wondered whether there was any connection. He did not mess about
with the axe again.
Lastly, I nearly lost the Troop. At the end of the week, the PLs were
going to lead their patrols over the Black Mountains. Weather forecast
good. Lads properly dressed, except for one who had only brought “winkle-pickers” to
wear. Maps, compasses, food, what could go wrong ? They were due back
at the camp-site well before dark. They did not arrive. At what point
does one involve the rescue authorities ? Well before dark, obviously.
I walked towards the bottom of the hills with the light fading. In the
distance, there they were. Phew ! The problem, dear reader, was that
their maps and compasses would not have helped in the dark, as none of
us, which really means me, had thought of torches. And the lad wearing
the very strange little pointed shoes was fine.
There was a time when I was rather disappointed at how few old members
of our Group had become Scouters; but I have since found there have been
rather more than I thought. Well done, them ! ( - R.)
Mike Pupius writes from Sheffield, though he still travels a lot to
Europe and the US. He also mentions a good holiday in Venice and Slovenia,
as well as shorter breaks in Dublin, Edinburgh and Skiathos. His sons
have also been busy. Jon has graduated, doing Sports Product Design,
and has designed the ‘Pupius Fisch’ an organiser for climbing
equipment that improves accessibility and safety. Dan has been in Honduras
as a volunteer with the Operation Wallacea project that provides scientific
research facilities in the jungle.
Frank Kroger is still in the US working as a longshoreman, - “getting
paid for many hours not worked” as he wrote in my Visitors’ Book.
He uses these monies, and those earned, to trade in stocks, - “hoping
to get money away from other unsuspecting investors”. He also gets
enough to come to Europe for a second time in the year, seeing his father
in the Netherlands as well as friends in England.
Tony (Tant) Yeats still rings church bells twice a week, and spends
one evening a week on a University of the Third Age course (Archaeology
and the Countryside this year), or at one of the many Environmental Groups’ meetings.
He is working on interesting projects in Botswana, Nigeria, Belgium,
Bulgaria, Libya, Poland and Iraq, which keep him out of mischief; and
he has become Parish Clerk for the village. Tony also has two grown up
sons. Liam is employed by W.H.Smiths, but also works for Oxfam on Saturdays,
and does the accounts for another shop every week. Corin has finished
his Ph.D. at the Sanger Centre in Cambridge, - the establishment noted
for its work on the Human Genome, - and he is now working on an EC project
on that subject. Tony (like most of us) has to admit that he does not
understand a word he is talking about.
And talking of bell-ringing : among those who rang the hand-bells at
our Reunion last February were Peter Jackson and Julian
Portch. They
both came to one of my hand-bell ringing parties this month, and were
glad to be able to renew the experiences of thirty or fifty years ago.
Richard Jopling and I have been having a two-way correspondence about
Scouting, - how it appeals to modern youth, and whether RGS should re-launch
the School Group. I suggested that our pupils can now get almost (but
not quite) all that Scouting offers without commitment to regular attendance
and a Scout Promise. Richard’s most recent e-mail sums up some
of our thoughts.
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Yes, I can see that modern ways do make Scouting more challenging for
the young. There is more money around, particularly at an independent
school, and so people have more opportunities. A glance at the ‘Pilgrim’ is
enough to confirm this; trips abroad, PGL holidays, and overseas rugby
tours are just part of the diet. But there is also a lack of willingness
to commit to anything, - a case of ‘treats all the time’ so
that what should be special becomes the norm. Scouting was good because
you had to commit, and you built up relationships, made friends, and
then had experiences.
You will be pleased to know that all my three sons were Cubs, then Scouts.
They are now grown to be very fine fellows indeed; - please indulge me
here. I still think RGS should try to re-start the 16th.”
I (Robin) would add that Scout Leaders would also need considerable commitment
of time and energy, of which modern teachers have little to spare. Another
problem now is the SL’s bits of paper, (see Peter Wheatley’s
bit below}. Forty years ago, we canoed down the Wye without life-jackets
! And now we could not walk up the Pyg Track to Snowdon’s summit,
let alone scramble over Crib Goch, without a qualifying piece of paper
of dubious value.
Colin Harriden continues to work for social care services, most recently
with the NHS, developing workforce planning across Staffordshire and
Shropshire. He also has two sons; the elder one, Matthew, has just moved
to the Sixth Form after passing GCSEs in eleven subjects; the younger,
Thomas, has just started at the high school, after shining for the local
Under 11 Cricket team last summer. They are both keen on music, playing
in wind and brass bands.
Paul Shrimpton writes: “How are
you ? Thanks for the News-sheet. Interesting to hear about Chris
Wise (see NS 195). I enjoy hearing about other Old
Scouts, and always think they have had much more interesting and worthwhile
careers than mine. Still, having chosen to work in accountancy and computer
systems, what can I expect ? I am currently finance director of the (Horse)
Racing Division of Arena Pleasure Plc, and happily living in South Godstone
on a farm with Lois, my second wife (of 12 years). We have five offspring
between us, ranging in age from 17 to 22. The three eldest are at university.
I am still in touch with David Cooper, Simon
Jones, and Simon Arnold.
16th Reigate was a terrific Scout Group and the camps were wonderful.
It is a great shame it folded. Please keep the News-Sheet going.”
Peter Wheatley’s annual letter ran to nearly three A4 sides, because
he is as active as ever. As Head of Science at Dauntsey’s School
he has been overseeing more building work for new science facilities.
He has also been running two hockey sides. He is still umpiring hockey
on the West Premier league panel, and thoroughly enjoying it, though
it can be challenging at times. The play at that level is very quick,
and he has to keep fit and alert to cope with it. He accompanied the
School’s 1st XI hockey team to Barbados, where they only lost to
an U21 side. Apart from that, his summer involved a Scout Camp, ten days
walking in the German Alps, and a short trip to the Lakes.
His Scout Group is going well, 24 in the Troop, plus several older boys
who come to help. They had their usual five camps in the year, including
on Exmoor, a new area for them, over the sunny Spring Bank Holiday. Summer
camp was in the Lake District, and it rained very hard indeed on occasions. “Thursday
night saw some of the heaviest rain I have ever seen in England. The
entire site (on the side of a steep hill) was running with water. We
managed to keep the boys’ sleeping tents dry and secure, but our
marquee had a river running through it. The Camp Warden’s house
got flooded; he had been there for thirty years, and had never seen conditions
like it. We spent half the night checking our own boys, and the other
helping washed out groups of campers. Still, the days were generally
dry, and occasionally warm and sunny, and the boys had a great time.
I have been having a run in with our new Scout County Training Advisor.
They seem to think that I have to repeat all the training I have ever
done, and a lot more besides. They want me to attend 24 training modules,
some of them days, and some entire week-ends. I have told them that if
this new system cannot take account of my experience in actually running
a Scout Group, then they can have my warrant back, and Wiltshire will
be one troop fewer. The local DC is supporting me, and has told them
to back off, but it seems as if the new system is totally inflexible.
I await the outcome with some interest. It will be a shame if I end my
association with Scouting over such an issue, but I simply don’t
have the time or inclination to do all this (useless) training.”
For the sake of the boys, Peter, we hope they will see sense.
Many thanks for all these contributions. Please keep them coming, especially
if you have news of yourself, or opinions, or memories of camps or other
Scouting activities.
My grateful thanks, also, to those who sent me Christmas
cards. The good wishes for the Natal season and the New Year are much
appreciated.
Some interesting statistics on the cards I received:
12% depicted some version of the Nativity, 6% showed the Wise Men, 4%
the Annunciation, and 2% the flight into Egypt. Also 6% called for Peace,
and 8% had other religious connotations; so a total of 38% had some Christian
significance. Of the others, 32% showed winter scenes, 18% had meaningless
patterns or designs, and 12% showed robins !
My immediate plans include visiting Australia, where I shall be staying
with Tim St.Pierre and Ross Letten, each for a few days, as well as seeing
Alice Springs and Uluru (Ayres Rock). Perhaps there may be other Scouting
contacts.
The News-Sheet is now published on the School web-site, ORA section,
or type: http://www.reigategrammar.org/scouts/index.htm
The Data Protection Act will not allow us to publish postal or e-mail
addresses on a web-site without the owner’s permission. So (a)
if you send us any copy for the News-Sheet, tell us if your address may
be included, and (b) if you want to be put in touch with other Old Scouts,
we can do it privately. If any reader who still receives this by post
does have an e-mail address, please tell us, - to save time and money.
Robin H. Bligh, robin@reigategrammar.org
39, Monks Walk, Reigate, Surrey, RH2 0SS. 01737-248135.
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